I feel like I’ve died twice already or The circle of life is making me insane!

Hey everyone that follows my blog I appreciate your support. I have to warn you that this post isn’t the most uplifting or light hearted. Unfortunately this blog is about death, loss, and the aching that follows after losing a loved one. This April a child hood friend of mine was shot and killed. R.I.P. JEFF. Two weeks almost to the day one my closest cousins died due to a medical condition. Before I could fully recover and accept one loss I was slammed with another even deeper cut. It got me to thinking about the after life and what it means, I started doing a lot of research on the subject which took longer than I expected which caused the delay in my post coming out which I apologize for. The three ideas I researched were Heaven, Reincarnation, and Energy recirculation. Let’s start with Christianity; in these teachings it is said that if a person lives their life according to the set laws then they will enter the kingdom of heaven. This idea is a great one, follow the rules and you’re good, so why all the hollering and screaming at funerals? If these ideas hold true then funerals should be, in theory, a celebration instead of organized chaos. Both my friend and cousin were Christians, so why at the funeral did people not want to see them go to the pearly gates that await them in heaven? Did these people not live their lives according to the teachings or was it something else? When I asked an “expert” on the subject I was told that my human mind couldn’t comprehend what lies after. If that’s the case then why are the teachings taught if in the end I’m not going to be able to comprehend it anyway? This left me with more questions than answers and actually made me feel a bit worse than before I started searching so I moved on in search of answers. My quest for knowledge for the great beyond led me to the doors of reincarnation. Oddly enough reincarnation has two roads that one may travel down. Both say that we are all connected through the universe and that once we die our energy is then reassigned to another life form, here is where things get tricky. One believes that the kind of life you lead this life determines what being you will be in the next life. For example; if you were a generally bad person in this life and never treated your fellow man with respect you could wind up a lowly snail, but if you were caring and compassionate then you could have a shot as a majestic wild tiger. The second opinion basically states that when you die your energy will be reassigned to another human but you will not remember anything from your past life. Both scenarios brought up questions for me: one, do animal have souls? And, two, if reincarnation is true then the dog I accidently ran over last week could some day be my son or daughter? It kind of makes you want to be careful of how you treat beings because they could be your parents in the next go round. It would mean that I was once a dinosaur roaming the earth...that’s pretty hard to swallow, I only say that because realistically humans have only been on the planet for a short time and by that merit alone it puts serious unexplainable questions in both theories of heaven and reincarnation. So like a true knowledge junky I continued my search. The last search let me to the recirculation of energy, it states that we are all one in the sense the universe shares the same life line and energy. This theory was briefly introduced in the movie “Avatar”. It says that the energy force that we call our self goes back into a mass energy and gets distributed at certain times into plants and animals. This theory answered my question about where this energy was the hundreds of thousands of years there were no animals on the earth but by this theory there is no consequence or reward for living a “good” life, I don’t like the idea that someone that raped and murdered people with no remorse would get the same treatment as someone that treated all people as brothers and sisters. The whole ordeal left me even more saddened and confused than when I started my quest for an answer. In the end I kinda mushed all the ideas together to form one that gave me some peace of mind. I call it “Heaven is the resting place for my soul until it’s my time to live again”.  No one really knows what is waiting for us when we die, all we have is blind faith in what we believe will happen. Let the ones you love know you care and are proud of them because you never know when the sand will run out of the hour glass of life.

Most of yall are full of shit! or Stop making excuses and make history

So I was working this job fair with the homie Lia, and I was astounded by the amount of moochers we came across. I mean really people, you are at a job fair asking potential employers for free shit! Is it me? When did it become ok for people not to have to work for things, it seems like we have entered the Age of Gimme. I hear people bitch and moan about how they hate the fact that immigrants come into the country and take their jobs?! I’m always amazed by their statements, in the back of my mind I’m always thinking, if you let someone that can’t speak English, with limited knowledge of how the system works take your job then you obviously weren’t doing your job well in the first place! And further more about 80% of the people at the job fair had foreign accents, 15% were white, and as you may have guessed the last 5% was made up of my American minority brothers and sisters. The reason why immigrants are getting the jobs is because they are the ones going hard for the jobs. I read the book The Alchemist a while ago and in this book the teaching is “In order to get something out of life you have to give up something of equal value.” I’m sorry brothers and sisters, but you aren’t giving up anything but complaints and excuses. If you want something in life you have to give up something, you have to give your time, energy, blood, sweat and tears for what you want. All too often people want to be who they see on top but don’t want to do what it takes to get there. Being on top take a tremendous amount of work and to stay takes even more work. Success will never be achieved with excuses and a half ass work ethic. Before I end this I want to leave you a quote that hopefully will motivate you to get off your ass and chase your dreams passionately…

 “For success, attitude is equally as important as ability.” – Harry F. Banks

Support your local hater or Your fear is clouding my shine

This blog was inspired by a conversation I had with my cousins Takia and Noel……and Donnie Darko.

The other day I was watching the film Donnie Darko and one of the themes in the film was fear and love, that everything in life is based off of those two things. So afterward I started analyzing my people and I started to notice that the shit was real; everything that we do is truly out of fear or out of love. For example: half of yall in college aren’t there because you have a “Love” for knowledge or a desire to become educated, you’re only there because you guys are afraid that you won’t be able to make money without a degree. Another example of this fear that grips us all are those of you in these horrible relationships that you won’t end or leave because you are afraid that you will not find anyone else if you do. If possible I want to encourage people to live in the love spectrum rather than the fear. Fear causes you to act out of character and in some cases create hate, most haters are born out of fear. Those of you that have haters: have you ever noticed that on your journey, people that were once closest to you became your biggest haters? Ever wonder why? Well there are several reasons why, one is that at one time you and this person were on the same plane then you got your Bruce Leroy glow, you started shining and making moves without fear. That scared your friend, they became full of fear, fear that one day you would see the coward that they were within so they turned on you and became your hater.  Little did they know that you had a plan for them as well, a plan that would bring them with you, they didn’t know the love that you had for them was unconditional. Next time your on your path shining like the star you are and you encounter a hater, before you react and check the hater (because they need to be checked) think about why they may be hating, it may be a cry for help, they may want you as a mentor but are too afraid to ask.

Ladies it’s your responsibility to make sure your man is always fed!!!

Ladies this blog was inspired by a conversation I was having with my home girl Toya. She told me that she was talking with this gentleman years back and they started to get intimate and he said he cool off eating pussy. She said she was dumb founded and that someone in this day in age didn’t get down with lick it before you stick it concept. We finished our catering job and I went home thinking about our little conversation and here we are. Now I understand that some ladies out there may be a little self conscious about your bodies and or may feel uncomfortable with letting a man taste your sweets but come on ladies really? One- If you think the man might not enjoy ya flavor you need to dush that thing out or change your diet, because your right take it from me there is nothing more disturbing then a pussy that smells and taste like garbage. As mentioned before there are certain things you(ladies) should stay away from if you know you may have a male caller lick up some of that sweet sticky goodness. For both my male and female reader I suggest reading a book on oral pleasure by Violet Blue her link is as follows: http://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Cunnilingus-Exquisite-Pleasure/dp/1573443875/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t

Two- Ladies I hear ladies say that yall be dealing with men that don’t satisfy you which is unbelievable. Some ladies might not like this next statement but shit here it comes. It is your responsibility to make sure you get satisfied not the man because best believe if a man isn’t being satisfied sexually by his partner he’s finding someone that keeps his mojo right. So ladies next time you’re with a male caller and he bust off his shot before you reach your climax I advise you to push the top of his head down to the sweet spot and if he say he cant deal with the taste… pop a jolly rancher in his mouth and tell him it taste like candy! If he still protest show homie the door because I assure you there are many men that will suck your hips until your hips jerk. Remember ladies it’s your responsibility to keep your fed, so let him eat it up!

- B. Blunt

Shout out LONDON

My big cuzo just dropped his new album "4:20" click the link and go check him out
http://music.londonland.tv/album/4-20-the-album. Im not saying this because we related but his album is really an instant classic smoking album!

I have arrived!!!

I have arrived!!! For years now I have been kickin it sayin some crazy shit and even had an online radio show, all that said I have moved into the arena of blogging. If you are one of those people that over react to what gets said and loose your mind at the most insignificant things this may not be the place for you....hell keep checking in its gonna be fun to fuck with you a little bit. Hope to trade words with you soon!