When you look into mirror what do you see or Stop carrying yesterday's bullshit in your pockets

What’s good my blog FAM, a couple of yall been hitting me up asking where the new post at, I just want to say I really appreciate yall following me and not letting me slack off at this. I been light weight out of commission because bootsy ass AT&T playing games with my internet service, talking about the fiber optics in my area doesn’t support the speed I am requesting. HUH? Well why in the fuck did you tell me that high speed damn internet is available in my area? Corporate sons of bitches. Another thing that’s been up is my mutha fuckin rent, talkin bout they gonna have to raise my shit and the end of December, WTF! So you know I’m looking to move somewhere else, so if any of yall know of any places to live in North Oakland, Berkeley, Emeryville area let ya boy know. Hit me at brandenblunt.blogspot@gmail.com , this is a new email address for me, if you hit me I will greatly appreciate it, I will respond and or post a story if you send me one. So I am listening to Tijuana Jackson you can also follow him on twitter @tijuanajackson, I listening to his talk show. At first I’m thinking he just gonna be telling hella jokes but the more I listen the more I started to hear REAL life coaching technique and hear a real fuckin message. The last one I saw he was sayin that “yesterday’s answers can’t solve today’s problems”. The more I thought about it the more it made sense, a lot of us are walking around holding on to the thought process of our last relationship in our new relationship fuckin up something that good because we can let go of what the last did to us. He also said that we subconsciously surround ourselves with who we think we are, for example Coach TJ said he surrounded himself with a bunch a dumb ass people because he felt he was stupid, he also said that he wouldn’t date black women because they reminded him of his mother who he felt betrayed him.  The next day I get a phone call from my home girl, she crying because the dude she with slap fire from her ass, she asking me why she always get with men that hit her( the last two men she was involved with put hands on her they are as follows 1)ghetto ass mutha fucka that would get drunk and give her a drunken punch 2)rich ass white boy that would black her eye and buy her jewelry) so I says to her because I’m a TRUE friend if you get a one man that hits you damn what the fuck, if you get two hmmm this is familiar three guys hitting you, either you in co-ed karate or you making some fucked up ass choices. Needless to say that she didn’t receive that well and called me an ass hole and an insensitive mutha fucka. To my friend if you are reading this Fuck you that’s why you don’t have hair on the left side your head, yea I realize that may have been petty to say but the heffa hurt my feelings. Anyways I tried to explain to her that if you want someone to tell you it’s gonna be ok and say it’s that dude fault call someone else, now I’m not sayin that him slapping you is ok, what I am saying is that he are subconsciously attracting and staying with these low life’s because of your self esteem and because that’s what you feel you deserve. How many of us are in a cycle of continuous bullshit because we have failed to let past shit go or failed to learn the lesson at hand? Now things come up but if you are in your 30’s having the same issues you were having when you were 18 im sorry you are either dumb as FUCK or need to revaluate what’s going on. Now are these instant fixes? NO! I myself have some issue lol, and I’m studying to become a life coach realizing this I have a life coach. No some people out there may say in your bitchassitness voice (this voice is not gender specific it describes a winey, nagging, negative person. I could have just said that but bitchassitness is more fun!) so they may say “ I know what I need to do I don’t need a life coach” well if that were true wouldn’t wake up in the middle of the night crying because your life is fucked or dogging someone of the opposite sex because it raises your self-esteem( Men and Women can both dog the opposite sex FYI). I guess the morale of my post today is to bury that past shit, let it go so you can begin to really live and not just survive, the reason why you don’t succeed is because you don’t think you deserve to be successful.  

Oh thanks for the inspiration TJ.

Riding and Shooting or Do you need two bras

Lately I have taken up bike riding, which has been surprisingly fun. At first I originally did it to loose weight and to get some exercise in this hectic life of mine, but now I am really enjoying myself. I meet a lot of people when I’m out there touring the cities of the bay area; I have even started cycling every Sunday eating at different spots. I started riding solo bolo but have had people ride along with me for last couple of weeks which is freaking awesome! I’m looking to start a bike club if I get enough people to ride with, so get off ya fat ass and come out. The last time I went out I started taking pictures of some of the craziness I see when I ride around Oakland so be sure to check in for those pictures. Oh side bar I changed my diet a bit and added work out plans in there and can say that I have successfully lost 10 pounds of fat! LOL 10 pounds of fat. I haven’t really changed what I eat only the quality of what I eat. For example I have started eating only organic food or food with out hormones and preservatives. Well how does that help you loose weight Branden, thanks for asking faithful readers I’ll tell you! It help because when you eat food packed with hormones you then take on the hormone, I’ll keep explaining because I can hear some of you guys saying “and what the fuck does that mean” it mean that if the farmer gives the cow an added hormone to increase the cows body mass then when you eat it yours will too. Have you ever asked your self why am I gaining some much weight I only eat twice a day? It could be because you eat food packed with hormones, for the ladies its kinda like eating birth control and fellas its as if you were taking that powdered protein and not working out. Now the preservatives in the body are bit trickier then the hormones, when the body takes on preservatives the body doesn’t recognize them so it automatically stores them away in the form of fat cells until you use them. Now there is no nutritional use for preservative so the body will never use them, so they sit there in the form of love handles, turkey neck, cottage cheese thighs and back titties. LMFAO HAHA back titties, no offense to any of my readers out there with back breast. Now once these preservatives are backed on it is going to take a lot of physical exercise to burn off these empty calories. AND just think the point of preservatives is to LAST, to be here 20 years from now just like those back titties. LOL it’s still so funny. HA.  SO my best advice would be not to flood your body with preservative or unnecessary hormones. If you don’t believe what I’m saying Google it.

I really got off track here like I was saying stay tuned for more stories and picture from my ride and if your willing hit me up to go for a ride along with some good healthy eats. 

Until next time.   

What me married? or If I like should I put a ring on it? or My marriage clock is ticking,tick tick tick

What’s up My blog readers? How are things? Well this post is one that….well its one of those things that if you get it your way it could end up biting you in the ass, check it out. I was asked recently how long would I date someone before I would marry them, I said I haven’t put a time frame on it, it could be 1 year or 5 years it depends on the relationship and how I feel about the person. Their response was it should be 3 year max!!! So like I normally do in situations like this I began to survey people and with their express written consent via text message I got quite a few responses. I have taken the liberty of listing them below.

Suga Foot-“No time period if your following your heart, while on the other hand if your following your head that is when rationalizing comes into play, so I guess its really a matter of choice depending on what the individual chooses to follow”

Ebonii- “When the two people are ready if one is ready before the other then they should reevaluate the relationship. But neither should settle”

Jasmine- “ Personally I think marriage should be brought up till some years later, that way you get to really know the person and all tha shit” (LOL one of my favorite quotes)

Angie- “Yes there is a time limit dependent upon age. I think shit if I’m 30 I’m more inclined to have a smaller window of patience”

Kendra- “I feel like it just depends on the feelings you have towards the person. If it’s real it can be a month, a year or a decade...you just gotta feel its right”

Mark- “Depends on both maturity levels”

London- “ There is no time period to marriage cause some people date all their lives and have been with someone all their life and never been married. I really don’t care for marriage but to each their own”

Little will- “Not feeling that can you. It is when YOU as a person DECIDE to makes a commitment to a MONOGOMY and of course your mate would as well! That’s what starts a marriage and keeps it. It’s a decision you make to start and continue to make throughout a marriage.”

After reading all these Reponses I began to revaluate what I stated earlier. If you forgot what I said scroll up and look it’s a blog not a conversation. I still feel the same. I mean I do want to get married weather it’s a church wedding, notary or city hall I would like to be. I also would happy just being with a person for years wrapped up in love knowing that that person was there for me and me there for them. I also feel people put A LOT on marriage thinking that once you get married all your problems and marriage certainly doesn’t mean that the person will stay with you. I have also seen people stress out because they have to be married by a certain time. The absolute worst is seeing someone in an unhealthy and unhappy marriage for the sake of being married. All these quotes and responses are just opinions I ask everyone that reads this to make your own decisions about marriage. Marriage is not to be taken lightly; it’s not just something that you do. Marriage is a sacred thing that should be decided on by both parties and if both parties can’t agree then maybe it’s to leave the relationship.

Wake yo MIND UP!! or Put yo goodletts up!!!

 So me and good ol Goodlett were having this discussion about the state of minorities, people young and old, and by minorities we were referring to any and all enslaved or colonized people .Several things came up during this discussion that were both upsetting and comical. Goodlett brought up two terms I had never heard before:  “Post traumatic slave syndrome” and “Post traumatic colonization syndrome”. They both refer to how people act and what they choose to do with themselves after they have been oppressed. Goodlett and I both reside in Oakland, California so the demographic we were talking about was mainly the African American and Mexican American brothers and sisters of the area. I say to Goodlett, “Goodlett, there is no excuse why people don’t get up and do something with their lives. I mean, there is a tremendous amount of resources for them to pull from if they used even half their asses.” Goodlett replied with the biggest smile I’ve ever seen, “I’m with you about there not being an excuse but there is a reason, its called Post Traumatic Slave syndrome.” He went on to say that a lot of us are broken by the thought that we don’t deserve anything more then what we have or feel that it’s pointless to try and change because the world only sees you as this stereotypical figure; people have the desire but have been brain washed for generations. All I could say was “WOW,” wow because of all the conversation with my brothers and sisters from the neighborhood, conversations with the children I work with, a similar theme kept coming up in my memory bank: all the conversations ended with, “I want to do it, but man you know how it is.” How deep did these syndromes go with my fellow Oaklanders? So like I do I started asking people questions, because of convenience I started with my African American people, I started asking them about the middle passage, the holding cells in Ghana and even about slavery here in the states. Sad to say that most knew only what they saw in movies or what they briefly learned in school. How could my people not know their own history and just accept what they were told? Furious with what I just heard I interviewed some of my Mexican people; their response was parallel with those of my own race. I think one knew that Spain had occupied the country at one time. Is not knowing our history the source of all the confusion throughout our community? Is it appropriate to blame outside entities for our current position in life? When should we stop making excuses and start making history? I don’t have all the answers nor do I have a formula for success, all I’m saying is what ever the reason, what ever the cause, all of us need find that inner strength we all possess to stop surviving and start living.

DON'T SHOOT!!! or I think I just messed my pants!!!

This last week of May 2-6, 2011 has been one of the most challenging and eventful weeks I’ve had in a while, well the whole week wasn’t all that stressful it was more like Thursday-Saturday. It began like any other morning: 9:30am, I’m driving on the freeway, 80 to be exact when suddenly I was oowhoped (oowhoped- n. slang, pronounced OOO-whop. Origin- the sound a police siren makes. Meaning- to be pulled over by the police). Now right off the bat I started sweating and why, you might ask, well let me tell you. I was driving my car with a suspended license and no registration; I had insurance and my seat belt on though (lol, a joke). SOOO the officer asks besides my registration is there anything else that is wrong with the car? In my head I’m thinking this may be a test of character or a game the officer is playing so I nut up and tell him my license is suspended, he takes my I.D and walks away. The cop comes back 10 minutes later and ask for my car keys, in my head only one word is echoing……FUCK  .......When a cop asks for your car keys it means you are either going to jail or you are getting your car towed, either way you slice the shit my day is starting off pretty fucked up. Now let me clarify for all the finger pointing critics out there that like to say the cop is only doing his job blah blah blah. I get it, I didn’t pay the bills and he doing his shit but that doesn’t mean I have to like it, I dare you not to cry when the dentist sticks you with that big ass needle, he’s just doing his job right? Right, that’s what I thought. Any way so after 15-20 minutes the cop comes back and ask me to step out of the car, he explains to me that he is going to tow the car, nobody wants to hear this so I sigh and go to put my hands in my pocket, here is where I shit on myself. As my hands hit my pocket the officer screams get your hands out of your pocket and pulls his gun. Now I’m no punk but I was scared, I mean the cop has a glock 6inches from my chest and a crazed look in his eye. I thinking that I about o get shot on the freeway SMH (yea that’s right I used text message lingo in my blog, what you gonna do about it?!!) So naturally I put my hands up, I say to the gun wielding officer I’m trying to give you other key to the car man, the officer replies “Oh ok I’ll get it from your pocket.” He continues to say “Sorry about that, it’s just policy.” All I could say was “Hey, man”. All while he gets my keys and we have our exchange of words my hands are still up, then this cat wants to joke saying “Relax, it’s ok, you can put your hands down now.” People, this man with a damn gun in my face and is now telling me to relax, “I want to relax my foot in your ass,” (that’s what I wanted to say but I was still scared….lol). In the end he shakes my hand and tells my to walk off the freeway. Yes, that’s right, in the course of 30 minutes I got my car towed, a gun pulled on me and sent to walk off the freeway, I almost got hit by a damn truck! What a way to start the day..

Alfred Hitchcock once said “I’m not against the police; I’m just afraid of them.”

I am too Alfred, I am too.

Tales from DMV part 1 or The first installment of the nightmare that is known as the DMV

I was at the DMV today and I witness and heard some of the most outrageous things, these are Tales from the Department of Motor Vehicle. SOOO my day started like most that don’t call in and make an appointment, bright and early standing in line with the rest of the dumb asses with no appointment. While still waking up I was listening to a young woman on the phone giving another young woman advice. The woman I was listening to was telling her friend on the phone not to marry a man that had asked for her hand, the reasoning being because he did not drive a certain automobile OR pull enough money annually. HMMMM? Now it seems to me that if you love a person and a person genuinely loves you then love shall conquer all, rich or poor it should not matter……LOL I’m just bullshiting with you haha. Now I’m not saying that a person has to be rich or drive a certain kind of car, what I’m saying is that if you can’t take care of yourself when you’re alone then it is highly unlikely that you will be able to do it with another person. I know people are going to be in an uproar talking about LOVE is the only thing that matters, I want you to say that when you working twice as hard and a muthafucka is sitting on your couch spending up ya money not contributing. However in this situation I feel that the woman may have been too harsh to the young lady on the other end of that line for the following reasons. 1) The man obviously loves the young lady to ask for her hand in marriage. *WARNING* Unhappy people will HATE on you if you even show signs that you are happy or that your situation is improving and theirs is not. 2) The man (from what I could ear hustle) had a job and made enough money to support himself and take the young lady out on occasion AND didn’t live with his mama *REALITY CHECK* Males and Females, stop being so judgmental and critical of petty bullshit, if you’re not making six figures a year then don’t expect your mate to. Yes, it’s nice to hope and dream for it but if someone can support themselves, buy you shit every once and a while AND loves your stank attitude having ass? ummm hello. 3) The woman giving advice to the young woman on the phone didn’t ask too much about her friend’s potential fiancé, instead was projecting her “baby daddy” action all over this man. *HATERS* Just because your situation is messed up does not mean that everyone’s situation is going to be messed up, stop trying to create pity parties and circles of depression. You are in those situations because of you, no one else. If you don’t like it simply leave the situation alone. More Tales from the Department of Motor Vehicle to come, check in later this week for the rest. AND remember support your local hater, shine all day and all night!!!

Urban Hippie or What did you call me?

    When I started my life coach journey, I had no idea that I that I would be coaching people in my everyday interaction. It’s kind of funny though, while taking your classes they teach you about “gremlins” that pop up in people and how to identify them, you also start to use your “6^th sense” muscle which is pretty F’ing sweet. Before there were things that would happen in my day to day that would really piss me the hell off, now, before I dive into a rage and start throwing shit off my roof, I stop to think about why I am really getting mad. Now I’m not saying that I don’t get mad at shit, I’m saying that it takes more than a simple stare to incite the monster within. To the ignorant mofos reading this don’t stop me on the street and disrespect me because I still may boot you in ya chest for shits and giggles. When I started I was warned that I would start to see things and people in a different light. Those warnings have started to reveal themselves. A new title has been bestowed upon me by my sister, mother and closest of friends. “URBAN HIPPIE” is what she calls me. What is an Urban Hippie? you may ask, well let me tell you good people of the blogging world. An Urban Hippie is one that believes whole heartedly in peace, love and oneness BUT still reserves the right to bust a head if the situation warrants such behavior. This chap can vibe out to the black keys, linkin park, paramour AND will still get down to the sounds of the old lil Wayne, young jeezy and of course the classic Wu Tang, Biggie and Pac. This delightful fellow is enlightened and will post words of encouragement on his twitter then turn around and take a Twit Pic of some poorly dressed slob and post it on his page for the amusement of others. Now I know what you may be thinking: This guy is a straight walking contradiction! While nothing could be further from the truth, it’s actually close enough to give truth a big slobbery wet one. The Urban Hippie strives for peace and serenity on the daily but has embraced the beast that lives the darkest part of his soul. It’s kinda like seeing a Nun walk a lion; the lion won’t attack as long as the nun remains unharmed. However once the nun is harmed and the lion attacks to defend the nun all bets are off because, realistically, how could a nun pull the king of beasts off some random asshole looking for trouble lol (yes I just laughed at my own joke I don’t need your validation lol). So when you see your Urban Hippie walking down the street admiring the beautiful cloud formations please don’t disrespect because you might just get bit.  

H2O and Hgb or The constant struggle between relatives and family...

“Family isn’t always blood. It’s the people in your life who want you in theirs, the ones who accept you for who you are.” Words spoken by a twitter friend shout out @MrTruthIsHere. These words are as he says the TRUTH lol. I would like to take it a step further and say that Relatives are people we have the same genetic make up with and Family are those that we choose and they choose us. On occasion relatives will also be family. I have a cousin named Bop, everywhere we go we introduce each other as cousins, and every time this introduction takes place we receive hard stares and more questions inquiring more about how is this possible. Now Bop is this big Puerto Rican so the looks are to be expected being that I am a black man. It has come to my attention that the people that are closest to you most times are not blood, which leads to me ask what it truly means to be family. In the tribal days you were known by what your village was called then broken down by what house you came from, for example. I am part of the Oakland tribe of the house of Blunt. It seems that in these days the bond among the people was much stronger than it is today. This tribalism even shows itself in today’s society. When a person joins a gang essentially he or she is joining a tribe, he or she will do just about anything for their new found family. Why? Some would argue that the person has been brain washed, in my opinion that’s a bunch of bullshit. Speaking from my experience as a person that has relatives and to a certain extent and a “street family”, you would do anything for them because in the blink of an eye they would do the same for you. I believe that people go out and seek these surrogate families for one of 3 reasons. 1) Protection; in some cases there is strength numbers. It may be to ones benefit to join a gang i.e. prison, in the case your group is the minority in a hostile environment 2) Love; if someone is missing love at home they WILL try to find what they think is love else where in most cases like the song says “Looking for love in all the wrong places”.  And lastly 3) Acceptance; most times your relatives have already planned and plotted your life which for some of us can be a problem especially if you have reached the point of self discovery. When you finally reach that point of knowing who you are (or how you want to be perceived) if only at that moment in time, it is extremely devastating to not get approval from your relatives. So, my people, yes blood is thicker than water but we are 80% water, which means there would not be any blood without water. Choose your family wisely and once you do tell them often that you love them because they love you…

If you want to send me a message, picture or anything of the sort hit me at brandenblunt.blogspot@gmail.com Talk to you soon!!

Finger licking good!!! or What you wont lick she will!!!

Hey guys I have a story for you... For some reason I never thought of people reading my blogs, this week I had a reality check around it. I was going through my day to day and some one comes up to me and says should I just pop it in his mouth or what? I was taking off guard by what the young lady was saying so I replied with “What are you talking about?” she said you know what you said on your blog “Keeping your man fed”. I started laughing and said I suppose it depends on yall relationship, then I started to have fun with it and added “So your pussy doesn’t taste good by its self?” She quickly replied “Oh yes it does, its delicious!” smiling a bit and I asked “So you’ve tasted your own pussy? How did you manage that?” She hit me with an unexpected question. “Women don’t lick your fingers clean after you finger them?” I told her “No they haven’t, maybe I’m not messing around with the right freaks.” She replied smiling a bit “I guess you better find the right one” She slid me a jolly rancher and walked away. In the words of my big cuzo @londonland “OH LIL BABY”. The whole ordeal I admit caught me off guard a bit but also got me to thinking that I may want to get my readers opinions about certain things and possibly start doing interviews. Last week I was chillin with sister and she told me she read my blog and that she was hanging with some of her friends having a discussing about what made some of them start dating women when the topic of my blog came up. Now you guys know I was HELLA intrigued. (For those of you not from the bay area Hella mean very or really, in this sentence it can be viewed as I was really intrigued.) My sister said a lot of the women were saying that they weren’t getting their pussy licked and if a guy did go down, they half ass ate their dinner. To my fellas I recommend that if you don’t go deep sea diving you had better step yo game up cause there are some women that will get their grub on. AND if your lil baby is willing to suck her own juice off you fingers then you had better eat it like shrimp fried rice!!!

I feel like I’ve died twice already or The circle of life is making me insane!

Hey everyone that follows my blog I appreciate your support. I have to warn you that this post isn’t the most uplifting or light hearted. Unfortunately this blog is about death, loss, and the aching that follows after losing a loved one. This April a child hood friend of mine was shot and killed. R.I.P. JEFF. Two weeks almost to the day one my closest cousins died due to a medical condition. Before I could fully recover and accept one loss I was slammed with another even deeper cut. It got me to thinking about the after life and what it means, I started doing a lot of research on the subject which took longer than I expected which caused the delay in my post coming out which I apologize for. The three ideas I researched were Heaven, Reincarnation, and Energy recirculation. Let’s start with Christianity; in these teachings it is said that if a person lives their life according to the set laws then they will enter the kingdom of heaven. This idea is a great one, follow the rules and you’re good, so why all the hollering and screaming at funerals? If these ideas hold true then funerals should be, in theory, a celebration instead of organized chaos. Both my friend and cousin were Christians, so why at the funeral did people not want to see them go to the pearly gates that await them in heaven? Did these people not live their lives according to the teachings or was it something else? When I asked an “expert” on the subject I was told that my human mind couldn’t comprehend what lies after. If that’s the case then why are the teachings taught if in the end I’m not going to be able to comprehend it anyway? This left me with more questions than answers and actually made me feel a bit worse than before I started searching so I moved on in search of answers. My quest for knowledge for the great beyond led me to the doors of reincarnation. Oddly enough reincarnation has two roads that one may travel down. Both say that we are all connected through the universe and that once we die our energy is then reassigned to another life form, here is where things get tricky. One believes that the kind of life you lead this life determines what being you will be in the next life. For example; if you were a generally bad person in this life and never treated your fellow man with respect you could wind up a lowly snail, but if you were caring and compassionate then you could have a shot as a majestic wild tiger. The second opinion basically states that when you die your energy will be reassigned to another human but you will not remember anything from your past life. Both scenarios brought up questions for me: one, do animal have souls? And, two, if reincarnation is true then the dog I accidently ran over last week could some day be my son or daughter? It kind of makes you want to be careful of how you treat beings because they could be your parents in the next go round. It would mean that I was once a dinosaur roaming the earth...that’s pretty hard to swallow, I only say that because realistically humans have only been on the planet for a short time and by that merit alone it puts serious unexplainable questions in both theories of heaven and reincarnation. So like a true knowledge junky I continued my search. The last search let me to the recirculation of energy, it states that we are all one in the sense the universe shares the same life line and energy. This theory was briefly introduced in the movie “Avatar”. It says that the energy force that we call our self goes back into a mass energy and gets distributed at certain times into plants and animals. This theory answered my question about where this energy was the hundreds of thousands of years there were no animals on the earth but by this theory there is no consequence or reward for living a “good” life, I don’t like the idea that someone that raped and murdered people with no remorse would get the same treatment as someone that treated all people as brothers and sisters. The whole ordeal left me even more saddened and confused than when I started my quest for an answer. In the end I kinda mushed all the ideas together to form one that gave me some peace of mind. I call it “Heaven is the resting place for my soul until it’s my time to live again”.  No one really knows what is waiting for us when we die, all we have is blind faith in what we believe will happen. Let the ones you love know you care and are proud of them because you never know when the sand will run out of the hour glass of life.

Most of yall are full of shit! or Stop making excuses and make history

So I was working this job fair with the homie Lia, and I was astounded by the amount of moochers we came across. I mean really people, you are at a job fair asking potential employers for free shit! Is it me? When did it become ok for people not to have to work for things, it seems like we have entered the Age of Gimme. I hear people bitch and moan about how they hate the fact that immigrants come into the country and take their jobs?! I’m always amazed by their statements, in the back of my mind I’m always thinking, if you let someone that can’t speak English, with limited knowledge of how the system works take your job then you obviously weren’t doing your job well in the first place! And further more about 80% of the people at the job fair had foreign accents, 15% were white, and as you may have guessed the last 5% was made up of my American minority brothers and sisters. The reason why immigrants are getting the jobs is because they are the ones going hard for the jobs. I read the book The Alchemist a while ago and in this book the teaching is “In order to get something out of life you have to give up something of equal value.” I’m sorry brothers and sisters, but you aren’t giving up anything but complaints and excuses. If you want something in life you have to give up something, you have to give your time, energy, blood, sweat and tears for what you want. All too often people want to be who they see on top but don’t want to do what it takes to get there. Being on top take a tremendous amount of work and to stay takes even more work. Success will never be achieved with excuses and a half ass work ethic. Before I end this I want to leave you a quote that hopefully will motivate you to get off your ass and chase your dreams passionately…

 “For success, attitude is equally as important as ability.” – Harry F. Banks

Support your local hater or Your fear is clouding my shine

This blog was inspired by a conversation I had with my cousins Takia and Noel……and Donnie Darko.

The other day I was watching the film Donnie Darko and one of the themes in the film was fear and love, that everything in life is based off of those two things. So afterward I started analyzing my people and I started to notice that the shit was real; everything that we do is truly out of fear or out of love. For example: half of yall in college aren’t there because you have a “Love” for knowledge or a desire to become educated, you’re only there because you guys are afraid that you won’t be able to make money without a degree. Another example of this fear that grips us all are those of you in these horrible relationships that you won’t end or leave because you are afraid that you will not find anyone else if you do. If possible I want to encourage people to live in the love spectrum rather than the fear. Fear causes you to act out of character and in some cases create hate, most haters are born out of fear. Those of you that have haters: have you ever noticed that on your journey, people that were once closest to you became your biggest haters? Ever wonder why? Well there are several reasons why, one is that at one time you and this person were on the same plane then you got your Bruce Leroy glow, you started shining and making moves without fear. That scared your friend, they became full of fear, fear that one day you would see the coward that they were within so they turned on you and became your hater.  Little did they know that you had a plan for them as well, a plan that would bring them with you, they didn’t know the love that you had for them was unconditional. Next time your on your path shining like the star you are and you encounter a hater, before you react and check the hater (because they need to be checked) think about why they may be hating, it may be a cry for help, they may want you as a mentor but are too afraid to ask.

Ladies it’s your responsibility to make sure your man is always fed!!!

Ladies this blog was inspired by a conversation I was having with my home girl Toya. She told me that she was talking with this gentleman years back and they started to get intimate and he said he cool off eating pussy. She said she was dumb founded and that someone in this day in age didn’t get down with lick it before you stick it concept. We finished our catering job and I went home thinking about our little conversation and here we are. Now I understand that some ladies out there may be a little self conscious about your bodies and or may feel uncomfortable with letting a man taste your sweets but come on ladies really? One- If you think the man might not enjoy ya flavor you need to dush that thing out or change your diet, because your right take it from me there is nothing more disturbing then a pussy that smells and taste like garbage. As mentioned before there are certain things you(ladies) should stay away from if you know you may have a male caller lick up some of that sweet sticky goodness. For both my male and female reader I suggest reading a book on oral pleasure by Violet Blue her link is as follows: http://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Cunnilingus-Exquisite-Pleasure/dp/1573443875/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t

Two- Ladies I hear ladies say that yall be dealing with men that don’t satisfy you which is unbelievable. Some ladies might not like this next statement but shit here it comes. It is your responsibility to make sure you get satisfied not the man because best believe if a man isn’t being satisfied sexually by his partner he’s finding someone that keeps his mojo right. So ladies next time you’re with a male caller and he bust off his shot before you reach your climax I advise you to push the top of his head down to the sweet spot and if he say he cant deal with the taste… pop a jolly rancher in his mouth and tell him it taste like candy! If he still protest show homie the door because I assure you there are many men that will suck your hips until your hips jerk. Remember ladies it’s your responsibility to keep your fed, so let him eat it up!

- B. Blunt

Shout out LONDON

My big cuzo just dropped his new album "4:20" click the link and go check him out
http://music.londonland.tv/album/4-20-the-album. Im not saying this because we related but his album is really an instant classic smoking album!

I have arrived!!!

I have arrived!!! For years now I have been kickin it sayin some crazy shit and even had an online radio show, all that said I have moved into the arena of blogging. If you are one of those people that over react to what gets said and loose your mind at the most insignificant things this may not be the place for you....hell keep checking in its gonna be fun to fuck with you a little bit. Hope to trade words with you soon!